Temple Scarlet Retreat

A Sacred Sexuality Retreat

The 2021 Temple Scarlet DAY Retreat is a 10 am to 10 pm outdoor event of classes, activities, rituals, and a community fire. Shorter and smaller than our regular retreat, the Temple Scarlet DAYretreat is a relaxed introduction to sacred sexuality. Overnight camping spaces are available at no extra cost.

Temple Scarlet events are open to persons of all genders, sexualities, relationship styles and relationships statuses. 
Classes and workshops cover topics like polyamory, sex magick, love languages, BDSM, tantra, trauma healing, deities of sexuality, body positivity, sex education, love and intimacy in all its forms. 

Please read the strict Rules and Guidelines before registering.

Avalon Acres

Where | 

Saturday, September 25th

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Event Rules and Guidelines

Temple Scarlet Retreats are built upon a foundation of consent and communication. Attendees should become familiar with our rules, guidelines, and our processes for making allegations or complaints.

Attendees must be present for the mandatory orientation at the beginning of the retreat where vital information about safety and consensual behavior will be clarified. Attendees must provide their COVID-19 Vaccination Record Card and a valid ID upon arrival. No exceptions.

Helpful Definitions

Rules: regulations for the retreat that must be followed; rules are hard-line, non-negotiable, and without exceptions 

Guidelines: behavioral regulations for the retreat that are emphasized, promoted, and encouraged in order to create a safer community and better festival experience for all 

Allegation: a written statement describing the actions of an individual who has been witnessed engaging in rule breaking, refusal to follow guidelines, and/or non-consensual behaviors

Complaint: a written statement expressing concerns about any aspects of the Temple Scarlet Retreat or Temple Scarlet pages

Temple Scarlet Event Rules

Consenting Adults Only: no persons under the age of 21 will be allowed on site

No Photos: any photography, video, or recording of attendees is prohibited

Sober Physical Consent: physical touch between individuals must be previously agreed upon while both people are in a reasonably unaltered state 

Quiet Zone: no touching and no talking is allowed in the quiet zone which is designated for emotional processing, except with the assigned volunteers

Mandatory Orientation: all attendees must be present for the mandatory orientation at the beginning of the retreat

Temple Scarlet Event Guidelines

Holistic consent: Attendees should be aware and receptive of the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual boundaries of other people, and, always respect those boundaries by forming clear verbal and/or written agreements with other people before taking any actions which will affect others


Active consent: Attendees should continuously be checking with each other for expressions of agreement and enthusiasm, and, should cease the behaviors they are engaging if another person expresses discomfort, disinterest, or is non-reactive


Self Responsibility: Attendees must strive to honestly openly and clearly communicate their own concerns and boundaries to the best of their ability, utilize the physical and emotional safety measures provided, and follow the written process for complaints and or allegations 

Process for Allegations or Complaints

General complaints, including complaints about Temple Scarlet's online pages, must be submitted by email to the founder, for our records, or they cannot be considered and addressed. If you would like to submit an official complaint, please send an email with your full name and concerns to templescarlet@gmail.com. 

Allegations about any person at the Temple Scarlet Retreat must be taken to a member of the Temple Scarlet leadership team, within the scheduled time frame of the retreat, and documented for our records or the incident cannot be considered and addressed. The Temple Scarlet leadership team is willing to accept and document any and all kinds of allegations. The Temple Scarlet leadership team will provide support and help you through our process.

Temple Scarlet Process for Allegations
(What to do if you have witnessed or experienced non-consentual behavior or rule breaking.)

Temple Scarlet is not responsible for incidents occurring outside of the Temple Scarlet Retreat itself. Temple Scarlet is not responsible for any content other than that of our official website, social media pages, and the classes, workshops, and rituals being presented at the Temple Scarlet Retreat itself.

About Avalon Acres

The Temple Scarlet Day Retreat will be hosted by Avalon Acres. They are an urban tent camping area with 6.8 Acres of property. The grounds includes composting toilets, a small shower house, a large teepee, pond, and private fire circle area. Arriving feels like driving into an average neighborhood until you get to the end of the dead end road, then it feels like being in the country.

Avalon Acres Airbnb Website: avalonacres



Temple Scarlet depends completely on volunteers and helpful community members.

Information about KC local spiritual or sexual health resources is always appreciated. Knowledgeable folks who will teach classes or lead workshops are always needed! If you have something to offer or simply want to support this sacred work please send a message.

Temple Scarlet emails are checked intermittently, and response times may be slow. If you message is urgent, consider contacting our page on Facebook.