Print Outs and More
RELATIONSHIP CONTRACTS
Not everyone thinks that of contracts as romantic, but they generate important discussions and help folks set expectations and boundaries in a relationship. Most relationship conflicts begin with miscommunications that a relationship agreement of some kind could have prevented.
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NON ESCALATOR RELATIONSHIP AGREEMENT
This agreement is all about designing a conscious relationship, as opposed to an escalator relationship, and it has a casual feel. Choose your levels of commitment, emotional and physical intimacy, make plans to communicate and spend time together, and more. It is gender inclusive and the checkbox style could be adapted to multiple partners by signing with initals.
QUEER POLY RELATIONSHIP CONTRACT
This relationship contract we've designed reads like a traditional contract and is more inclusive, with spaces for four different partners. It covers topics like sharing finances, cohabitation, and intimate needs.
BDSM WORKSHEETS
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COMPREHENSIVE BDSM CHECKLIST
This nine page BDSM checklist by Creature Sir allows you or your partner to rate almost every kind of play imaginable. It has boxes to mark experience levels, past enjoyment, hard and soft limits, and much more. It does a great job of being inclusive. This checklist is ideal for experienced kinksters trying to keep track of multiple play partners, or entering into a new dynamic and learning each others loves and limits. It may be excessive for someone who is just starting out, but beginners could read through it to get perspective about all the play options available to them. We got it from www.ABCsOfKink.com.
KINKY PLAY WORKSHEET
This worksheet is perfect for a night at the dungeon or a play party. It is ideal to work through with a brand new partner, but can be helpful for established partners planning a night out as well. It has covers basic safety and consent questions, has options for different kinds of BDSM play, and also includes emotional and aftercare related selections. Some answers are write ins while others can be circled.
FOR PARENTS AND CHILDREN
Temple Scarlet events are for consenting adults only, but we highly recommend the organization SX Positive Families as a resource for parents looking for accurate age appropriate information for their children and teens. They consistently post helpful and discussion generating content on their social media pages. They also offer a book called SX Positive Talks to Have with Kids on their website.
